Posted by Athena Scalzi
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Y’all already know that I am not a horror fan. Horror has always been my least favorite movie genre, and there are very few movies within the genre that I even consider worthwhile. When I went to see Obsession, I was already outside of my comfort zone by going and seeing a horror movie in theaters, as they’re always too loud and I really hate being jump scared in front of other people.
You can imagine my surprise when Obsession ended up being the best horror movie I’ve ever seen. It is one of the most incredible films I’ve seen, even when I take it out of the horror ranking. It’s just that good.
I’d like to give y’all some spoiler-free thoughts first, so you can get a good feel for why I love this movie without getting into the nitty-gritty details, but then I will go deeper with spoilers and get into what makes it so damn great.
For starters, Obsession has so many little factoids about it that it make it more special than most films right off the bat, like the fact it was made for under a million dollars, at a whopping $750k. I have not heard of a successful, theater-released movie having that small of a budget in I don’t even know how long, if at all. That is so impressive. Not only that, but it is one of the only films, alongside E.T., to do better financially in the following weeks after opening weekend. Most movies peak at their opening weekend, but Obsession just kept getting more and more popular.
The fact that the cast was comprised of people I’d never heard of it made it all the better, because when you have Matt Damon as your lead, it’s hard to see him as anyone other than… Matt Damon (looking at you, Christopher Nolan’s Odyssey). So having a cast full of people I’ve literally never seen before made it feel so much more real. It’s more immersive when you don’t recognize big name stars that steal the spotlight. These people felt like people, not celebrities in a movie. Plus, everyone did such a stellar job, especially Inde Navarrette! She was perfectly terrifying.
Without giving too much away, the basic plot is this guy, Bear, wishes that his crush, Nikki, loved him, and let’s just say he gets more than he bargained for. The themes this movie explores are extremely heavy. Bodily autonomy, consent, love VS obsession, toxic and abusive relationships, family-friendly topics like that!
The horror element in Obsession is a special kind of dread that sticks with you long after you leave the theater. This movie sat heavily in my brain for days on end. A lot of horror movies give you two hours of cheap adrenaline rushes and jump scares while being oh so forgettable, but Obsession truly haunts you. “Unsettling” is too timid of a word to describe the feeling it will leave you with.
I find the pacing to be rather good, as there’s no B-plot for this movie, so it’s pretty much just all go-go-go with no breaks. There are no slow parts or scenes that feel unnecessary. All the scenes feel like the perfect length.
The lighting is a work of art in this movie. The soft, dim lighting at the bar, in Bear’s house, and throughout the film alongside the dark, shadowy, spooky scenes is so good. It’s very atmospheric, and feels somewhat intimate. Even the scenes that are dark aren’t that kind of super annoying horror movie dark where you just can’t see shit for the sake of jump scaring you. It’s like an actually well done type of darkness.
So, great performances, good pace, nice lighting, and a special kind of horror, all for under a million dollars! Pretty impressive stuff.
Now let’s get into the details. SPOILER WARNING!

From the moment we meet Bear, we are shown, expertly, how he is kind of a piece of junk. When practicing his confession speech, he only brings up how Nikki was nice to him and was there for him when he was going through a tough time. He never says what he likes about her as a person, just what she has done for him and how she makes him feel.
When he gets home and finds his cat dead, he puts it in a black garbage bag and throws it away. Who does that?! That is not how you dispose of a deceased pet?!
At trivia night, he tries to confess his feelings at an awkward, inopportune time that would affect the rest of the group and impact everyone’s evenings.
He didn’t give his gift to Nikki, he used it for himself and then lied to her, saying he left her gift at his house. Because he sucks!
AND HE CALLED HER FREAKY NIKKI EVEN THOUGH SHE HATES THAT. Bear is a certified jerk, even though it seems like, at first, that he’s just a shy, nice guy with a crush.
Worst of all, Bear is a coward. When Nikki asks him bluntly if he likes her, he pussies out and says no, then regrets it immediately. Then, when Wish Nikki says she knows he likes her, he denies it and makes her confess first before admitting that, yes, he does like her.
He is a coward when he can’t shoot himself and takes the pills instead, and he is a coward when he tries to throw up the pills because he doesn’t have the nerve to actually kill himself. He is a coward to the bitter end, and I think that is amazing. What a flawed, awful, hate-able character. There is no redemption, because he couldn’t even commit to killing himself. He is never the good guy, he is, from the start, the bad guy.
I have never felt worse for a horror movie character than I feel for Nikki. In the short amount of time we get to see the real Nikki, she is fun and kind and thoughtful. Nikki seems like a genuinely nice person, and it’s easy to see why Bear would have a crush on her. And suddenly, she’s gone. Trapped in some sort of horrible, agonizing negative space while something else controls her body, with only short spurts of consciousness where the real Nikki is begging to be freed, fighting to be released from Wish Nikki taking back over. Each time the real Nikki surfaces I can only imagine what is going through her mind, or if she wonders if this will be the last time she ever gains control again, just to succumb back under. Of course, it reminds me a lot of Get Out, which is also a great movie!
To be hurt by someone you think of as a friend, not just hurt but condemned to this cursed existence, only for him to ignore your pleas for death. UGH. Poor Nikki. It’s actually so heartbreaking. And so real! It’s often the people closest to you that hurt you the most.
Honestly their entire friend group is such a mess, with Ian and Nikki hooking up and Ian not telling Bear even though he knows how he feels about her. Ian tries sabotaging Bear’s attempts at confessing and is unhappy about his relationship with Nikki, yet never even mentioned his and Nikki’s situationship to the guy who is supposedly his best friend. Plus, if Bear is his best friend, why didn’t he believe him or at the very least hear him out more on the One Wish Willow?
If my best friend came to me, obviously distressed, and a ton of weird stuff had been going on lately, and they told me it was because of this very real wishing stick, I’d at least hear them out instead of calling them crazy right off the bat. I trust my friends with my life, and love them dearly, why would I believe they’re lying to me about something like this? Bear was obviously extremely distraught and practically begging Ian to listen, but he refused and just wished for a billion dollars to be a fucking dick.
As for Sarah, she was a Pick-Me praying on the downfall of Bear’s and Nikki’s relationship, judging from the sideline while also trying to make moves of her own on Bear. She asked him to meet her late at night in private, then told him that Nikki is taking advantage of him and he doesn’t deserve it, and that he needs someone “more chill.” Literally referring to herself as a better match for him than Nikki. What kind of friend does that?! She even says that he was supposed to kiss her, not Nikki. Does she secretly hate and envy Nikki? She is not a girl’s girl, that’s for sure, and she got a face full of brick for it. (I’m just kidding, she didn’t actually deserve the brick for being a Pick-Me, but it still is an unfortunate character flaw.)
Point is, this friend group really sucked. Nikki was the best of them, truly. Now she’s an extremely traumatized girl who will never be the same because of one selfish boy’s actions. She was a beautiful soul, and now she has been through hell and back, and is certainly forever changed. Again, poor Nikki. It makes me so sad!
I really love that the One Wish Willow isn’t even an evil thing, you can make a wish and have everything go great. The shopkeeper that made his wish certainly seemed fine, and Ian got his billion dollars with zero issues. It’s solely because Bear made a bad wish with bad intentions that his wish turned out so terrible. I find that to be an extremely satisfying mechanic, even though it sadly comes at the cost of Nikki.
This was a well-shot, well-acted, well-executed film with an amazing concept and cast. I loved it, and saw it three times in theaters. I highly recommend it, even if you aren’t usually a fan of horror movies. It’s probably the best film I’ve seen this year.
Have you seen Obsession yet? What did you think was the scariest part (for me, it was definitely when Bear is on the phone with One Wish Willow, and you hear Nikki screaming in agony in the background)? What’s your favorite horror movie? Let me know in the comments, and have a great day!
-AMS
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